FROM PULPIT TO PRESENCE

A Memoir of Losing Faith, Finding Recovery, and Learning How to Stay

Launching March 20, 2026

When the old way stops working

At some point the old way of living stops working — and it is not only the drinking. It is the hiding. The performing. The fear of being found out. It is living inside a belief system that demands certainty while something deeper in you knows the truth is more complicated.

From Pulpit to Presence is a concise, candid memoir that follows Don Phelps from Christian ministry into addiction, loss, and rebuilding. It is a story of recovery — and of what happens when the faith you are required to represent no longer matches your inner experience. When doctrine becomes a script. When the role becomes a cage. When keeping the image costs you yourself.

Recovery here is not a finish line. It is learning to sit with discomfort, tell the truth, and stay present — one day at a time. This memoir is descriptive, not prescriptive: an honest account of beginning again without pretending you have it all figured out.

This book is for you if:

  • You’re exhausted from performing, hiding, or trying to keep it together

  • A habit or coping pattern is costing you more than you can name

  • You’ve outgrown a belief system or identity that once gave you certainty

  • You’re rebuilding after loss, shame, or a public unraveling

  • You want an honest story, not a step-by-step program

  • You’re learning to stay present instead of escaping

  • You’re trying to begin again, one day at a time

Read a Short Excerpt

I’m not writing this to convince you of anything. I’m telling the truth about my own journey and what it has taken to live from a more honest place. This isn’t a blueprint. It’s just my story.

One thing I’ve felt throughout the writing process is the fear that telling my story could make it sound like I’m “fixed,” like I’ve arrived and now I’m here to teach from the other side. That’s not true.

I’m not writing from a finish line. I’m writing from the middle of a life that still requires attention, honesty, and practice.

I don’t need to have everything figured out to live well. I need to show up. I need to pay attention. I need to begin again when I drift.

If something in these first pages feels familiar, I would be honored to walk the rest of the story with you.